Friendship is not just about having fun or sharing laughs. It is about being there for each other in the good times and the bad. Accountability is what makes a friendship real. It is about caring enough to tell the truth, even when it is hard, and owning up to your own mistakes.
When you hold your friend accountable, it is not to judge them or make them feel bad. It is because you care. If they are making choices that hurt them, you step in and say something. It is not easy, but real friends do not just sit back and watch. They help you see where you are going wrong and guide you to do better.
At the same time, you have to be accountable too. If you mess up, like breaking a promise or saying something hurtful, you admit it. Apologizing and making things right shows your friend that the relationship matters to you.
This kind of honesty makes a friendship stronger. It builds trust because you both know you can be real with each other. It is not just about pointing out flaws. It is about support. You are there to lift each other up, not tear each other down.
Accountability is not just one person’s job. Both friends need to be open to it. If only one person is doing the work, the balance is off. Both of you need to be willing to grow and help each other grow too.
In the end, accountability is what keeps a friendship strong. It helps both people grow into better versions of themselves. True friends are not just there for the good times. They help you through the tough moments and make sure you come out better on the other side.
~Usman
